Time to say good bye or just try?
So what do men see in the women they r pursuing? Beauty? Brains? Character? Everyone’s needs are different, but if needs differ from time to time, won’t it be a nightmare to change partner from time to time? Apparently some ppl do that. If your partner just cannot adapt to your change of needs, what will you do by then? Ditch her? Try to live with it? Get her to compromise?
There is of course no specific solution to this. Everyone has their own ways to deal with such. And my blog certainly don’t provide the answers to that. Different aliments require different remedies. So what happens if you just stay the same? Won’t you just remind the same and not progress while your peers are moving on. Quite a headache if you ask me.
I was just thinking of the problems above recently and realised it’s important to have someone who understand and respect your goals and needs. Even if your goals are not desirable, your partner should still respect them because they love you for who you truely are. People do attempt to change certain traits and characters of their partner, in the hope of them becoming a more desirable person. However, it’s a forgotten fact that the more you try to change a human’s mindset and school of thought, the more resistance you’ll face?
It’s interesting that despite this fact, people still attempt to change their partners in the hope that some miracle will happen. I wonder if this is the case of day dreaming for the best without thinking about the worse case scenario.
So after looking at this complicated thing called men-women love relationship, I kinda gather this funny thought.
Singlehood = Free Market (anyone can just meet anyone and interact with them)
Dating relationship = Unpredictable stock market volatility
Long term relationship = Long term investment
Marriage = Long term investment plus dividends
Just a simple and funny way to describe the stages of a man-woman relationship. Not meant to offend anyone though.
